ggml : add ggml_build_forward_select (#18550)

* ggml : add ggml_build_forward_select

* cuda : adapt CUDA graph compat to new feature

* vulkan : update logic to handle command buffer closing

* ggml : check compute for fusion

* ggml : add comment

ggml/src/ggml-impl.h

@@ -611,6 +611,9 @@ static inline bool ggml_can_fuse_ext(const struct ggml_cgraph * cgraph, const in
         if (node->op != ops[i]) {
             return false;
         }
+        if ((node->flags & GGML_TENSOR_FLAG_COMPUTE) == 0) {
+            return false;
+        }
         if (i < num_ops - 1 && !ggml_node_has_n_uses(cgraph, node_idxs[i], 1)) {
             return false;
         }