ggml : add ggml_build_forward_select (#18550)

* ggml : add ggml_build_forward_select

* cuda : adapt CUDA graph compat to new feature

* vulkan : update logic to handle command buffer closing

* ggml : check compute for fusion

* ggml : add comment

ggml/src/ggml-hexagon/ggml-hexagon.cpp

@@ -2497,6 +2497,10 @@ static ggml_status ggml_backend_hexagon_graph_compute(ggml_backend_t backend, gg
             continue;
         }
 
+        if ((node->flags & GGML_TENSOR_FLAG_COMPUTE) == 0) {
+            continue;
+        }
+
         uint32_t flags = 0;
 
         // skip quantizer if src1 is reused